Outdated Sex Advice You Need to Unlearn with Dr. Tara

First Round's on Me

Date

Mar 31, 2025

Category

Dating

Length

49:37

Today, we’re turning up the heat because we have the internet’s resident sexpert in the house—the one and only Dr. Tara. She’s the fearless, no-filter voice behind the LuvBites Podcast, co-host of Loveline, and the author of How Do You Like It?—the ultimate guide to getting what you want (in bed).

So, we’re asking all the questions you really want answered—the worst sex advice still haunting the internet, the biggest intimacy killers on dating apps, and the red flags that scream “run” in the bedroom. And, of course… we need to settle the age-old debate: can bad sex ever be fixed? We’re also diving into first-date chemistry, the truth about body count convos (do they actually matter?), and the one thing that instantly makes someone unforgettable in bed.

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For detailed show notes, navigate using the timestamps below:

  • 2:08 Why Don’t We Get What We Want?

  • 4:36 Sex Education

  • 12:37 Do Body Counts Matter?

  • 16:01 Ridiculous Dating Rules

  • 19:24 Sexy First Date Moves?

  • 24:50 Kinks

  • 30:15 Marriage & Sex

  • 31:19 Five Year Hump

  • 36:30 Dating Apps

  • 38:38 How Much Connection Can We Manage?

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