The Countdown to New Year’s: Flirting Tips for Last-Minute Connections
Dec 30, 2024
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Hannah Feminella
New Year’s Eve—the one night a year when the clock is ticking, the champagne is flowing, and the pressure to find someone to kiss at midnight is palpable. Whether you’ve spent the year swiping (which we never recommend, FYI) dating with intention,or just focusing on some self improvement and love, this is your last chance to bring some spontaneous romance into the mix. And while it’s fun to plan ahead, sometimes the best connections happen when you least expect them. So if you're in the mood to flirt your way into someone’s heart (or just for a fun New Year's kiss), I’ve got you covered with some cheeky tips to make sure you stand out in the final hours of 2024! Grab a glass of wine, pucker up, and let’s dive in…
1. Channel Your Inner Confidence
Before you even think about making a move, let's start with the most important step: confidence. Seriously, confidence is your best accessory when it comes to flirting, and trust me, it’s a total game-changer. Whether you're rocking a little black dress or your favorite sweater, the way you carry yourself is what’s going to catch their eye first. So stand tall, make eye contact, and smile like you’ve already won the jackpot.
Pro Tip: Confidence doesn't have to mean being the loudest person in the room either. Sometimes the quietest, most self-assured vibe can be the most captivating. So don’t stress about being the centre of attention—just own the space you’re in.
2. Make the First Move (It’s Easier Than You Think)
If you’ve been eyeing someone across the room, don’t just wait for them to make the first move. Go ahead and make eye contact, throw in a little smile, and if they respond with a smile of their own, well... you've got yourself a green light.
Pro Tip: Complimenting someone on something specific can be a great icebreaker. Instead of saying “You look good,” try something like, “Your jacket is amazing—where did you get it?” It’s personal, it shows you’re paying attention, and it’s a perfect way to kickstart a conversation without feeling forced.
3. Keep the Conversation Light, But Meaningful..
Speaking on conversation, holiday parties can be full of small talk—where are you from, what do you do, blah blah blah. But let’s get real: these conversations can quickly get stale. The trick to keeping someone engaged is to ask fun, lighthearted questions that actually give you insight into their personality.
Pro Tip: Skip the traditional “what do you do for work?” and ask questions like: “What’s the best holiday tradition you’ve ever had?” or “If you could spend New Year’s in any city in the world, where would it be?” These questions not only get the conversation flowing, but they also give you a glimpse of who they are beyond the usual surface-level banter.
4. The Power of Playful Teasing
Flirting doesn’t always have to be serious—sometimes, a little playful teasing can go a long way. Whether it’s making a funny remark about their drink choice or playfully calling them out for their bad dance moves (all in good fun, of course), teasing shows that you’re comfortable and not afraid to be a little cheeky.
Pro Tip: Keep it light and fun—no need to overdo it. A little playful challenge, like a bet on who can dance better or guess the next song on the playlist, can break the ice and get them laughing. And let’s be honest—laughter is the best way to get them on your side.
5. Be a Little Mysterious
You don’t have to reveal your whole life story in the first five minutes. Sometimes keeping a little mystery is exactly what will keep them intrigued. Drop little hints about your life, but don’t feel like you have to overshare. Keep them guessing and make them want to know more.
Pro Tip: Give just enough to make them curious. For example, instead of explaining in full detail why you’re so excited about 2025, say something like, “I’ve got big plans for the new year—can’t wait to see where it takes me.” That way, they’ll be the one asking the questions.
6. New Year’s Eve—The Perfect Time to Be Spontaneous
New Year’s Eve is the ultimate night for spontaneity, so don’t be afraid to act on those playful, impulsive urges. The countdown to midnight is full of energy and excitement, and sometimes the best connections happen in the most unexpected moments. So if you find yourself next to someone and feel a spark, don’t overthink it. Go for it!
Pro Tip: Don’t wait until the ball drops to make your move—take advantage of the whole night. Whether it’s a dance-off at the bar, a shared laugh over spilled champagne, or a cheeky comment about New Year’s resolutions, moments like these are your chance to get close and make a memorable connection.
Even more Pro Tip: If you’re ready to turn that spark into something real in the new year, FROM has your back. Our Date Request feature is the epitome of spontinaity, that’s also intentional and focused—because who wants to spend 2025 playing games? Also with one-match-per-day feature, you’re guaranteed to meet someone who’s just as serious about making connections as you are. Lastly, nobody, and I mean NOBODY had any time to waste mindlessly messaging on the apps. That’s why we only allow you 24 hours to chat, saving all of those beautiful, connective conversations for in person.
7. Don’t Be Afraid to Make a Bold Statement 💥
New Year’s Eve is the one night where bold moves are not only acceptable—they’re celebrated. So if you’ve been eyeing someone all night, don’t let the clock run out. Whether it’s inviting them for a quick midnight kiss or asking if they want to step outside for a chat, sometimes the most confident approach is the best one.
Pro Tip: The countdown is the perfect excuse to go for that kiss you’ve been thinking about. Just remember—no pressure! Whether it’s a quick peck or a full-on moment of fireworks, the New Year is all about fresh starts, so why not start with a little boldness?
8. Stay Playful After Midnight (Or Beyond)
Okay, so you’ve had your first kiss at midnight. What now? Don’t let the fun end there! Use the energy of the New Year to keep things light and playful. Whether it’s teasing them about their New Year’s resolutions or making plans for a future date, staying playful after the clock strikes 12 is the key to keeping the spark alive.
Pro Tip: But don’t rush to make things super serious. Enjoy the moment and the chemistry, and remember that New Year’s Eve is just the beginning of what could…no, will be, an amazing year ahead!
The countdown to New Year’s is the time to take chances, make moves, and maybe even find a little love (or at least a fun memory). Whether you’re looking for a last-minute connection or just a spontaneous holiday flirtation, remember that New Year’s Eve is all about new beginnings—and who knows, that midnight kiss could be the start of something amazing. So go ahead and flirt like it’s already 2025. FROM us to you, Happy New Year. Here’s to many more moments of magic and meaningful connections🥂✨
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