Has Technology Killed Real Intimacy?

First Round's on Me

Date

Jun 2, 2025

Category

Dating

Length

30:16

In this episode, we pull back the curtain on modern dating and unpack the theories shaping today’s romantic landscape. From proximity crushes and delayed disappointment to the 72-hour rule and "plans are the new foreplay," Joe and Hannah break down the traps, myths, and hard truths of dating apps and digital romance.

Why does texting build false intimacy? Are we addicted to the fantasy of perfection? And how does taking charge become the ultimate sign of emotional maturity? Tune in for raw takes, real stories, and honest conversation about what it takes to build true connection in today's swipe-heavy world.

Timestamps
  • 00:00Introduction: Breaking Down Dating Theories

  • 00:30Proximity Crush Theory

  • 02:00Real-Life Example: The F45 Instructor Story

  • 05:00The Impact of Fantasy & False Intimacy

  • 07:00Delayed Disappointment & Table Theory

  • 09:00The Dangers of Endless Texting

  • 11:00Fear of Rejection & Addiction to Perfection

  • 14:00Why True Intimacy Requires Vulnerability

  • 15:00The 72-Hour Rule Debate

  • 20:00How Many People Should You Date at Once?

  • 25:00Intentionality vs. Oversaturation

  • 26:30Plans Are the New Foreplay: Why Effort Is Sexy

  • 29:00Emotional Maturity & Taking the Lead

  • 30:00Closing Thoughts & Takeaways

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