Has Technology Killed Real Intimacy?
First Round's on Me
Date
Jun 2, 2025
Category
Dating
Length
30:16
In this episode, we pull back the curtain on modern dating and unpack the theories shaping today’s romantic landscape. From proximity crushes and delayed disappointment to the 72-hour rule and "plans are the new foreplay," Joe and Hannah break down the traps, myths, and hard truths of dating apps and digital romance.
Why does texting build false intimacy? Are we addicted to the fantasy of perfection? And how does taking charge become the ultimate sign of emotional maturity? Tune in for raw takes, real stories, and honest conversation about what it takes to build true connection in today's swipe-heavy world.
Timestamps
00:00 – Introduction: Breaking Down Dating Theories
00:30 – Proximity Crush Theory
02:00 – Real-Life Example: The F45 Instructor Story
05:00 – The Impact of Fantasy & False Intimacy
07:00 – Delayed Disappointment & Table Theory
09:00 – The Dangers of Endless Texting
11:00 – Fear of Rejection & Addiction to Perfection
14:00 – Why True Intimacy Requires Vulnerability
15:00 – The 72-Hour Rule Debate
20:00 – How Many People Should You Date at Once?
25:00 – Intentionality vs. Oversaturation
26:30 – Plans Are the New Foreplay: Why Effort Is Sexy
29:00 – Emotional Maturity & Taking the Lead
30:00 – Closing Thoughts & Takeaways
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